Showing posts with label NICU. Show all posts
Showing posts with label NICU. Show all posts

Thursday, April 8, 2010

The Mechanics of a Miracle

4tunate March for Babies

By: QuatroDaddy

A little over three years ago, my sons were delivered by c-section at St. Vincent Women's Hospital.  After they were stabilized, they allowed me to go in and meet them for the first time in the next room.  I will never forget the experience and overwhelming emotion of those first minutes.  They were all crying and appeared to be relatively healthy. I was floating as though on drugs; It was an amazing experience.

Next, the nurses told me I would be able to come see them again in the NICU, but that they needed to go.  In the long hours that followed, I was unable to get permission to go see them.  What we didn't realize at the time was that they were beginning to encounter some trouble. 

When preemie babies inhale and then exhale for the first time, their lungs often begin to stick together.  As adults, when we exhale, our lungs collapse together, then as we inhale, they pull apart again and inflate.  This is possible because our bodies produce a lubricating chemical that covers the lining of our lungs which keeps them from sticking together.  Preemies lungs have often not yet developed the ability to produce this lubricant, so they suffocate and die as a result. 

All four of our boys were born with this problem.  Were it not for a man-made chemical called Surfactant, which replaces the lubricant that our bodies are supposed to produce on our own, Henry, Brooks, Clark, and Isaac would most likely not have survived.  They sprayed this lubricant into each of their lungs, allowing them to use their full lung capacity again.

When the doctors or nurses who explained this process to us told us that the research for this life-saving chemical had been funded by the March of Dimes, I knew that this was an organization we would need to give back to.  This is just one example of many life-saving breakthroughs that are used in every NICU across America.  There are thousands of children who sign up for Kindergarten every year who would not be alive without the March of Dimes.

We are making great strides in our efforts as an ambassador family for the March of Dimes Walk for Babies.  We’ve raised over $500 so far and we’re excited to walk with many of our friends and family on April 25th in downtown Indianapolis!  We’d love to have you join our team (please sign up online so we know you are coming) as we fight together for the lives of babies.  Your participation and enthusiasm is changing lives!  (Coming next week there will be some fun incentives for those who have given or will give – so stay tuned!) Remember even a small commitment can make a difference when we work together!

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010

A Miracle In Perspective: 1st Bottle

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To celebrate the Miracle of our Quadruplets 3rd Year of Life, I’ve pulled out a few things from their day of birth to help put their tiny little miracle lives into perspective.  It’s hard to comprehend just how small, yet perfect their little bodies were.

I used a regulation sized football (28 inches) as a comparison object.  (Go COLTS!)

Although it was about 2 weeks before they would be able to attempt to eat on their own, I wanted to show you the size of their first bottle.  They started off with 20 cc’s which is just over a 1/2 an ounce.

3 years later, these boys can eat anything and everything on their own from carrots to quesadillas!  They are healthy, growing, and hungry boys!

Praising God for blessing us with 3 years of LIFE!

A Miracle In Perspective: Vitals

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To celebrate the Miracle of our Quadruplets 3rd Year of Life, I’ve pulled out a few things from their day of birth to help put their tiny little miracle lives into perspective.  It’s hard to comprehend just how small, yet perfect their little bodies were.

I used a regulation sized football (28 inches) as a comparison object.  (Go COLTS!)

These items (Leads to monitor their heart rates, Blood Pressure Cuff, and Eye Goggles to protect their eyes from the billirubin lights) all played a part in keeping our boys safe during those first few weeks in the NICU.  So grateful for the technologies that gave our babies the best shot at survival.

Praising God for blessing us with 3 years of LIFE!

A Miracle In Perspective: Hospital Bracelet

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To celebrate the Miracle of our Quadruplets 3rd Year of Life, I’ve pulled out a few things from their day of birth to help put their tiny little miracle lives into perspective.  It’s hard to comprehend just how small, yet perfect their little bodies were.

This was Clark’s (3 lbs. 7 oz ) hospital bracelet that he wore around his leg. 

Now his 3 year old legs love to run, jump, kick, gallop, and dance. 

Praising God for blessing us with 3 years of LIFE!

A Miracle in Perspective: Preemie Diaper

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To celebrate the Miracle of our Quadruplets 3rd Year of Life, I’ve pulled out a few things from their day of birth to help put their tiny little miracle lives into perspective.  It’s hard to comprehend just how small, yet perfect their little bodies were.

I used a regulation sized football (28 inches) as a comparison object.  (Go COLTS!)

It may not look that miniature, but it went up to their armpits and covered their backs!

3 Years Later, we are anxiously anticipating the day that we say goodbye to diapers for good!  (Hopefully very soon!)

Anybody wanna take a “crack” at how many of these we have changed in 3 years time?

Praising God for blessing us with 3 years of LIFE!

A Miracle in Perspective: 1st Pictures

3 years ago today, they entered this world and we captured their first minutes in pictures…

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Henry Samuel Murray

(Baby “A”)

Born at 12:33 pm

2 lbs. 12 oz.

15 Inches

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Brooks Layton Murray

(Baby “B”)

Born at 12:34 pm

3 lbs. 0 oz.

15 Inches

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Clark Thomas Murray

(Baby “C”)

Born at 12:34 pm

3 lbs. 7 oz.

15 3/4 Inches

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Isaac Edward Murray

(Baby “D”)

Born at 12:35 pm

4 lbs. 0 oz.

17 Inches

To celebrate the Miracle of our Quadruplets 3rd Year of Life, I’ve pulled out a few things from their day of birth to help put their tiny little miracle lives into perspective.  It’s hard to comprehend just how small, yet perfect their little bodies were.

Stay tuned today for several posts to help us remember and celebrate their precious lives!

Praising God for blessing us with 3 years of LIFE!

 

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

The Day at the Capitol

The reason for asking for your prayers at 10:15 on Thursday morning:

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I will be speaking briefly on our family’s experience with prematurity and our personal connection to these legislative issues. 

I’m feeling majorly a tad bit nervous, but excited to be a positive example of the vigilant efforts of the March of Dimes.

I hope I don’t faint at the podium...

Or refer to a Senator as a Representative….

Or forget which state I reside…

Or have 4 two-year olds making a ruckus in the audience…

Or pee my pants!

10:15 Thursday, People.  My deepest appreciation for your prayers and encouragement.  

 

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Extra! Extra!

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Gift: Jen Murray (left) looks at photos after giving a survival kit to Sara Scott, 28, whose premature quadruplets have been in a neonatal intensive care unit at St. Vincent Women's Hospital since Nov. 25. - Matt Detrich / The Star

Our NICU Survival Kits Made Front Page News!  You can read the full article here.  Keep spreading the word!

We are grateful for the many ways YOU are contributing your own efforts towards this project through blankets, lotions, ideas, time….Lives are being impacted and touched! 

I’m super excited about some things in the works of how you can personally get involved….

A special thanks to Josh Duke and Matt Detrich for their ability to articulate this story through their gifts! 

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Today in Verbs

Today I walked through the doors of a hospital that became my address for 36 days, nearly 3 years ago…

Today I scrubbed my hands with the same soap smell that I associate my newborn preemies with…

Today I travelled down the same hallway to the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit that became my 4 sons’ address for the first 3-5 weeks of their lives.

Today I embraced a fellow quad mom and felt an instant connection and friendship…

Today I looked at Maddox, Jack, Emma, and Parker with wonder and awe at their tiny, yet perfect little bodies…

Today I witnessed many families who face a very difficult road ahead…

Today I visited with nurses and sonographers who cared for me through 32 weeks of a high-risk pregnancy…

Today I hugged the man who safely delivered 4 miracles one February Day…

Today as I remember the uncertain days of the NICU, I am once again overwhelmed with gratefulness this season for 4 gifts that cannot be purchased, packaged, or wrapped. 

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Brad changing his first diaper ever…wonder how many he’s changed since?!!!!  - February 2007

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Bloggers Unite: March of Dimes

Today over 400 Bloggers are participating in Bloggers Unite Fight for Preemies to raise awareness of the 20 million babies who are born prematurely each year.  The March of Dimes is fighting to drastically decrease these numbers.  You can learn how to help fight against premature birth here.

As a mother of four preemies, I owe an ENORMOUS thank you to the efforts of the March of Dimes.  Each of our 32 weekers benefited in some way, shape, or form from their dedication to fighting for preemies and diligent research.  Although our quadruplets had to put up a fight for survival (especially Clark), they came out of the NICU experience with flying colors.  

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Most would call us lucky.

We beat the “odds”.

We had a favorable outcome in the face of many obstacles. 

Obstacles that included respiratory distress, a NEC (Necrotizing Enterocolitis) scare, high billirubin levels, high blood pressure, bradyacardia, apnea, dangerously high CO2 levels, and digestive issues.

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However, we know better than chalking it up to “beating the odds”.  We know that “luck” discredits the true factors in our boys’ survival.

Most of all it ignores God’s ultimate plan. He chose to give us life.  Sometimes He chooses to take life (that He created) away.  Sometimes even to those in our exact same circumstances, or with even better “chances”.  I simply can’t understand it in this lifetime.

And to be completely honest, sometimes it’s not always easy to be the “survivor” family. 

~ It’s extremely difficult to watch a mother of twins next to you meet her babies, for the sole purpose of saying goodbye.

~ It’s emotionally disturbing to listen to two mothers scream in agony over losing their babies on both sides of the walls of your high-risk unit room, while you feel your four babies moving inside of you.

~ It’s gut retching to have four healthy babies safely at home and read about a mother who you’ve followed throughout her pregnancy loose 5/6 of her sextuplets.

~ It’s unbearable to watch a friend’s full-term baby be born with multiple complications, and unable to survive.

Of course it makes me thankful for the breathing, heart-beating lives of our boys, but there’s also a guilt that’s hard to explain.  I don’t deserve these blessings, yet God allowed them to live; And not only live but thrive

These are the emotions that surround me as a mother of 4 premature success stories, I cannot fathom the grief of the other side.

I cannot wrap my mind around it.

Instead, I can only choose to be grateful.  Grateful for their precious miracle lives that God has chosen for us to raise another day. And thankful for how He used the doctors, nurses, respiratory therapists of St. Vincent Women’s Hospital, and for the efforts made through the March of Dimes in their little lives.

And that is how we left these doors as SURVIVORS.

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If you are blogging for the cause of fighting for preemies.  Feel free to link up your specific post here:

 

 

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

NICU Survival Kits: What’s Next? (Update)

Update: Isella went to be with Jesus this afternoon.  Although her 3 days on this earth were short, her impact on this world will be long lasting.  Please keep her parents Myka and Ben in your prayers as they face the difficult days ahead.

nicu My heart is heavy for several babies currently struggling in the NICU.  My friend from high school FCA, Myka, gave birth to a sweet daughter named Isella.  There were complications during delivery and things are very bleak right now.  We are praying for a miracle and trusting God’s sovereignty in her sweet little life! Another family friend’s niece delivered a baby boy named Broyan today at 24 weeks. He’s 1 pound 12 ounces and so far is fighting and stable, but the days and even weeks ahead will be very critical.  Another little guy Noah was born recently, even though his due date wasn’t until December.  Would you join me in praying for these sweet precious gifts from God, Isella, Broyan, and Noah, the medical staff, and their families?

Since our last media post on the NICU Survival Kits, I’ve received several emails of referrals, prayer requests, suggestions, and offers to help make preemie blankets and hats for the kits.  This is super exciting to us, because we really want this project to be a blog community effort.  Many of you are contributing just by visiting our blog, because a portion of the modest revenues we receive from advertising on this blog are used to fund the NICU Kits, which cost about $40 a piece to assemble.  THANK YOU!  We are truly blessed to have you as faithful readers and supporters of our family! 

For those of you who are interested in becoming more involved in this project here are some suggestions for things we need.  We would appreciate your ideas, feedback, and any resource suggestions as we continue with this effort!

~ We are in need of a good container/bag/box to put all the goodies in.  Currently I’ve been dressing up a regular large gift bag, which does the trick, but I have visions of a custom box or reusable bag with a nice label on it.  Ideas?  Suggestions? 

~ We are in need of crotcheters and knitters for preemie blankets.  Think “doll blanket” size.  Most of the blankets that I’ve received have been in the 20x20 range...a little longer is fine.  I have a stock pile of about 20 blankets, but we are assembling quite a few lately and they are going quickly. 

~ We would love to find a discount to buy the book, On the Night You Were Born, (affiliate link), in bulk.  We have checked with the publisher (Feiwel & Friends), but were not able to get a bulk rate.  If we order through Amazon we have to pay shipping per book.

~ Ongoing Items in Need:  Gum, Snacks, Hand Lotion, Journals, Disposable Cameras, Chapstick.  Keep your eyes peeled for discounts and sales and tell us about them!

Again, we are not asking for your $ or even donations, just your dag-gone amazing resourcefulness! 

Feel free to leave me a comment here or we’ve set up an email account specifically for our NICU Survival Kit Project at

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Thank you for helping our efforts in a project that is sooooo dear to our hearts!  Thanks again for your prayers for Isella, Broyan, and Noah.

Friday, September 25, 2009

NICU Survival Kits in the Media

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The video, pictures, and dialogue of this story, is a great reminder of our own journey with 4 little miracles and the blessing they are in our lives. Our desire is to reach other families experiencing the uncertainty of the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit), that became our boys first home for their first 3-5 weeks of life.  If you would like more information on our project, check this link or the toolbar menu labeled “NICU Survival Kits” or contact me at quatro_mama {at} yahoo {dot} com .

PS  Hope my Quad Mama Sistas enjoy your Shout-Out!

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

NICU Survival Kits: The Gift That Keeps on Giving

If you’ve been around the block and back with 4tunate, you are familiar with our “NICU Survival Kits”.  It’s been quite some time since I’ve posted about them. We took an extended break after our move and then we got caught up in parenting two year old toddlers to dedicate the time and resources required to put these together. Brad and I spent the weekend restocking, organizing, and assembling our supplies. After hand-delivering a NICU Survival Kit to a new triplet mom today, I’m excited to say, “It’s GREAT to be back in business!” 

(If you have no idea what I’m rambling on about, you can look back on these posts where I explain NICU Survival Kits in more depth and see how the idea has evolved.)

Many of you have written and asked if you could make up your own NICU Survival Kit for a family member or friend who is experiencing the uncertain journey of the NICU, and my answer has always been ABSOLUTELY!  We are in no way copywriting this idea, and it thrills us to no end that many of you want to “Pay It Forward”!

Check this video to see the details that go into a NICU Survival Kit:

 

NICU Survival Kits are funded by the revenues we earn from the sponsors of this blog. (Another portion of it helps feed our ravenous toddlers.) So thanks to you, readers, for helping us bless others just by reading our blog!

If you have ideas, tips, or would like to get more involved in our NICU Survival Kits, be sure to leave me a comment or email me at quatro_mama {at} yahoo {dot} com We’d LOVE to have you as part of this effort to reach out to parents of babies in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit.

And there’s more….but I’ll leave you in suspense until a little later!

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Picnicking with Miracles

Sunday was one of our much anticipated events of the summer, the annual St. Vincent’s NICU Reunion. Each year this event seems to become more meaningful and more enjoyable to us as a family.  It’s an event that fills us with joy, and humbles us with thanksgiving.  We cannot thank the staff at St. Vincent’s Women’s enough for their care, with my own life and the lives of our 4 precious sons. We know that God used each of you in our lives for a PURPOSE

Let’s take a walk down memory lane and watch how our “Tiny Successes” Have Morphed into Little Boys…

Our 1st NICU Picnic 2007

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2nd NICU Picnic 2008

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3rd NICU Picnic 2009

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And now for some Choo-Choo Wagon Overload…

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First Stop: The fire engine, of course!

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The picture that appeared in the Indianapolis Star taken shortly after our interview with WTHR. (Fun media opportunities to share our story and gratitude for St. V’s.)

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Dr. Jansen, one of our neonatologist, reacquaints himself with the Crew.

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Dr Sumners, my perinatologist, taking another ride in the wagon, much to Brooks’ dismay. (I could cry over my love and gratitude for this man!)

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It’s been waaaaaay too long!  Lisa, our favorite night nurse says hello to the boys. 

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Because you can never get enough choo-choos rides if your name is Henry or Isaac…

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Can you sense my excitement?

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Last stop before melting into a puddle of sweat: The Petting Zoo

We tucked the boys in on Sunday night and were tearfully reminded again of the 4 miracles that we are blessed with… Every. Single. Day.

 

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Meals, Mayhem, and Miracle Memories (Part 3)

A few days ago, we received this in the mail...

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Recognize anyone in this collage? 

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How about now?

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He's a cute little booger, if I do say so myself! 

This picture was taken last year at St. Vincent's Annual NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit) Reunion Picnic with one of our primary care nurses, Nataline.   This year will make our 3rd year in attendance to one of our favorite highlights of the summer.  We feel incredibly blessed to be invited guests of this celebration of miracles.  We are certain that God used doctors, nurses, and therapists in preserving our boys' lives nearly 2 1/2 years ago and look forward to reuniting with those who cared for us in our greatest time of need. 

To Look Back on Past Year Picnics See These Posts:

We Are Survivors: NICU Picnic 2007

Tiny Successes Grand Picnic 2008

Jenny Heminger, RN (cq) checks Brooks Layton Murray (cq) in the NICU at St. Vincent Women's Hospital, Friday, February 9, 2007.  Brooks was the second in a set of quadruplets born to Jen and Brad Murray last Friday, February 2, 2007.  He was 3lbs at birth.    The four brothers are all in the NICU.  (Kelly Wilkinson / The Indianapolis Star) 

Brooks in the NICU, February 2007

1 of our 4 Miracle Memories!

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